I'm wanting to know if the relationship between him and the other woman is going to work out, or is there a chance that he will come back to me.  If you think he will come back to me, about how long will I have to wait for this to happen.  I'm so miserable without him...and miss him so much.

-Still Thinking Positive

Dear Positive; I'm positive too… positive you are wasting your wonderful heart, charm and energies on someone who is far too little deserving of them. My guess is that this female is a subservient type or is portraying herself as one. I think he will be in for a  big surprise in his life in the later spring of 2000. Hopefully, by then, YOU will be LONG GONE and moved on to a far MORE deserving man born around later July or early August of '56,'61 or there about. Keep me informed.

Dear Rita Ann,

In the fall of  "94" or "95" you did my natal chart & a reading.  Have

picked up several books since then to learned more about myself  &  Astrology.

Something has bothered me since that session - you said I'd be "disappointed

in the men in my life". So far, I'm on a roll.  Will I be disappointed

forever?  I'm 6/18/57, Green Bay, 12:15pm.

Also, I have a Grand Trine, Grand Trine Kite, etc., in my natal chart.  The

books I have are either very limited or do not discuss this at all.  Can you

advise?  Thank you.  -Linda

Well, Linda, I guess a roll is better than a dead stop. No, I don't think

you will always be disappointed, just that it may happen more often than

not, for longer times than you'd care to have them last AND to make matters

worse, at the drop of a hat, even after years of stability. You DO show a

nice stable romance coming in around later spring '99 or early fall. THAT

one should last a goodly long time. You may also find it necessary to GIVE

it lots of time before committing, but expect the 'show' to start around

then. Those two time frames could also be 'linked' to one another by

circumstances. Like you met during spring but do not start until fall, etc.

That 'kite' thing sounds like some terminology some other astrologer made

up and that might be what you are read in one place. A 'grand trine' is

when three powerful positions are all within 90 degrees of one another,

forming a triangle. The degrees have to be exact with planets and with in a

half degree orb for the moon and one degree for the sun to qualify. Much

depends on the planets involved, the houses they unfold in and any other

planet offsetting any of the trines with other aspects like squares or

oppositions. It's a real maze of analytical work to weigh and measure

against years of experience and second guessing

Dear Rita Ann; I am a Scorpio born 20.11.1981 and would like to know if

16.11.1981 feels the same way I do. What should i do? Tell him or leave it ?

Dear ?  Telling him will reduce the chance for a mistake made by a missed

opportunity. However, DO NOT expect a great deal from him. He is REAL gun

shy and liable to bolt on you. He's got some rabbit blood too, so make sure

you are careful in safe sex practices if the relationship heats up. Being

left to raise a child with NO moral, physical or financial help is not

easy. You and he are VERY high for 'baby' right now in your lives,

especially when you combine that Karma by being together. You BOTH show

strong trends for parenting a child soon. Watch it.

Hello Rita Ann,

The question is for my daughter. She is 12-27-80, and her boyfriend is

3-26-80. They are both very mature people and talk of marriage. He is

Russian born, (Moscow, Russia) and she's a local girl.  Do they have a long

term future? Thank you for help with my question. Sincerely yours, Diane

Dear  Diane;

She is quite a smart girl. She likes to learn things the hard way and take

her time assimilating the lesson but once it is 'in there' it is in there

for good. She can be or do anything she wants. He is an eager beaver too.

I do believe they have some good long term future potential. I think they

have similar goals and  will spend a lot of time instilling even more good

traits in each other. They might start on children as early as the late

summer or early fall of '99, but more  likely it will be 2003.